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Christ Works Learning Series

Walking Through Grief

Four recorded sessions on facing loss honestly, praying the language of lament, walking alongside grieving friends, and holding on to a hope that survives the worst year of your life.

Rachel Kim · 4 lessons · 1 hr 34 min · Recorded meeting series · Encounter the Cross

Lesson 1 of 4 · 23 min

What do I do with my grief?

Permission to grieve honestly instead of rushing to be fine.

Background for this lesson

Grief is frequently hurried, mostly by the people around it. Within weeks a grieving person learns which answers keep a conversation short, and begins giving those answers instead of true ones.

Scripture does not hurry grief. Jesus wept at a grave he was about to open, which means sorrow is not a lack of faith and comfort is not the same as speed. There is a time to mourn, and it is longer than most schedules allow.

This first lesson gives grief its proper room: what you have lost, what changed, and what you have not been allowed to say.

Passages in this lesson

Tap a passage to read it in full, with the rest of the chapter.

Questions to think through

  1. 1What have you not been able to say out loud yet?
  2. 2Who lets you be honest about how you are actually doing?
  3. 3What answer do you give people that is not quite true?

Your notes

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